Dating Advice for Men Seeking Russian Women for Dating and Marriage

If you are a western man considering a possibility of looking for a partner in Russia, former soviet union or Eastern Europe, here are a few advices for you, to make your venture successful.

5 "DONTS" you should always remember:

1. Don't think that Russian women are looking for foreign men just to "get out of the country".

Life there actually is not as bad as you might think. Just like you would not want to live with someone you don't like, Russian and Eastern European women are looking for a man that they can like and share home with. And yes, they have requirements about the man they want to meet. Russian women seek compatible partners, not just a way out of Russia.

2. Do not think that Russian women will jump on you just because of your passport.

Many men think a Russian woman will like them simply because they live in a better country. This is, of course, not enough - a Russian woman also expects to be courted and treated with dignity and respect, just like a western woman.

You have to establish a genuine relationship to be able to bring your Russian fiancée to your country - forget the stories about "mail order brides", you cannot buy or order a bride!

3. Do not think that Russian women are less intelligent or less educated than you are.

Some people think Russian women are less educated or less intelligent than women in their country. This is simply not true. In Russia more than 70% of women hold a college or university degree.

Men visiting Russia usually say that Russian people are well educated on a variety of subjects and "very smart". If you are looking for a woman who is intelligent and educated, it will be easy for you to meet a woman like this in Russia.

4. Do not think that all you need is to send her a ticket and she will come to you tomorrow.

Most people in the west are not aware that it is nearly impossible for a Russian woman to get a tourist visa to United States, Canada or Australia. The are numbers of Internet criminals that prey on this ignorance and contact unsuspecting men through large dating sites, using fake identities and asking for money for visas and tickets. If you ever receive such a request from someone who pretends to be from Russia, the first thing to do is to contact your Embassy in this country and ask them if this person applied for a visa, and whether they have been granted the visa. 99 times out of 100, the person with this name never applied for a visa.

NEVER send money to anyone who pretends to be a Russian woman and asks you for money for visa and tickets! This is the most common Internet dating scam, and these people are NOT real. Scammers are mostly MEN pretending to be Russian women seeking love.

5. Do not use large dating sites if you are looking for a Russian woman for marriage.

Large dating sites work well for people seeking someone locally. They do not work that well when you try to search internationally, and the reason for that are the scams mentioned above. Large dating sites only ask for an email address from their clients, and it is easy for anyone to join - including scammers. Because of that, many large dating sites actually block users from Russia and Eastern Europe - real Russian women cannot join large dating sites because they are in Russia, but scammers still can, because many of them are in fact in the U.S.A. or other western countries, and all they do is to simply state in the profile they are local and later in emails tell you this was a mistake, that they are really from Russia. If you encounter profiles like this on large dating sites, this is a red flag and you must report them to the administration of the site. This is most likely a scam.